There are three phrases that serve as keys to enter men's heart and come out freely anytime you want if you have them on your lips.
These phrases are:
Please
Thank you and
I'm sorry
If you master the art of using these words at every moment that they're needed and use them sincerely with an open heart, you will have a smooth communication and connection with people at ease.
People who master the art of winning the heart and minds of others and influencing them hold these phrases as tools in their mouths to freely flow with people.
Among these phrases, saying "Sorry" on occasion where you're at fault or have offended someone is very important to recover the person and make peace while resolving the raging issue at hand.
"I'm sorry" is a also healing balm. It heals a broken heart and brings down the sharp anger of people towards you. Saying it and being sincere about it can recover people completely and create room for mediation.
Saying "sorry" is an expression of remorse, regret, or acknowledgment of a mistake, hurt or wrongdoing. It conveys an understanding that something you did, said, or failed to do has negatively impacted another person or situation, and that you take responsibility for it.
Saying sorry is apologizing, which can be a way to mend relationships, show empathy, or acknowledge someone's feelings.
It is good and recommendable act of using "Sorry" when necessary. In moments where your behavior or decisions have caused someone else inconvenience or hardship, a sincere apology by saying "I'm sorry" is appropriate.
If something said or done was taken in a wrong way by the other party or caused offense, saying sorry shows that you value the other person's feelings, even if it wasn't your intention.
Sorry is a key to open a heart closed by provocation.
Often times, you need to apologize to your parents when they're not at peace with you before you can talk about anything else.
You don't go to them and start justifying yourself and making demands when you know you're at fault on an issue or failed to do a task given you.
This apply to all forms of our relationships. Learning to say sorry is to bridge the gap between you and another person created by errors.
It is also important to know that saying Sorry does not always mean you're at fault. It is an indication that you want to make peace rather than trying to prove a point or justify yourself. It shows that you're ready to forgive the person who has offended you and you cherish the relationship more than your ego and offenses.
In saying "I'm sorry", you need to be sincere and lavish about it. You must not say it because it is the order of the day and what should be said, but mean it, be loud about it, sincere and lavishly calm the heart of the other party. People can tell from how you say Sorry, either it is from a genuine and repented heart or not.
It is very unfortunate when a person doesn't know how to say sorry or refuse to apologize for what is not right.
Having a difficulty in saying Sorry is a proof that you're a heartless person, not being a peacemaker and do not care about the emotions and integrity of others.
People who don't say "I'm sorry" to their mistakes have difficulty with forgiveness. Because they don't want to say it, they find it hectic to accept it when it is being said to them. They are capable of holding on to grudges for a long time, they don't value relationships and don't care about loosing worthy friendships.
Be careful about people who are never sorry. To them, they're always right. When they even admit their fault, it is painful for them to apologize. They look for all means to justify themselves instead of saying Sorry and make peace. Watch people like that, they hardly form a long term relationship.
"I'm sorry" does not kill. You don't loose anything precious in you when you apologize. It proves that you are better now than you were yesterday. It shows that you're a man of peace, you value people and have love for others.
Learn to say sorry when you're at fault. Do not be paved up, admit your mistakes when you're being prompted. Always apologize and heal the heart of those you've wronged them and win your relationships back.
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